Now this is just a personal option- not based on any facts or surveys; Nor am I an expert on the subject! LOL: But this is why I believe you should sometimes have sex on the first date, contrary to popular belief! First of all, people know whether or not they have that initial animal attraction; You either have it, or you don't, that simple. So why wait till the 2nd or 3rd date if your just gonna do it anyway. (Now if you're saving yourself for marriage or some other religious reason, then that is a different story). But, for most people, you're just trying to be on your best behavior, not look too easy, or are playing hard to get. But why? If you're gonna fuck anyway- why wait? You know you want to...
Also, if you "do it" the first night you're not going to give too much thought about it. It's going to be raw and real- you know what you're getting! Now, if you wait, you have too much time to think about it. You're going to have preconceived notions about how it should be, where it should be, what you're going to wear, how you should do it, what you shouldn't do, are you too fat, too skinny, not in good enough shape, do you like him/her enough, or should you even do it at all! See what I'm saying? It's probably not going to be as good as if you would have just done it! So like Nike says-"Just Do It"!
And guys, don't be so quick to judge! Be happy you found a girl you're attracted to, and she actually wants you!!! That doesn't make her a slut or ho; She's no different than you. Girls want and need sex too!
My mom gave me the best advice, she said, "Be a lady in the street and a whore in the bedroom- and your man will be happy." :) So, be safe, have fun and happy dating. Hope you find the man or woman of your dreams, your soulmate, the love of your life. Keep your eyes open, and your heart and soul too. Put your fear aside and just go for it! You only live once, and life is too short to miss out on love.
xoxoxoxox CC
If people wanted to get an instant rush they wouldn't wait 3 hours in a line and then go up the roller coaster slowly...The answer to why some people wait has to do with one thing: Anticipation. You speak of freakin out over "Am I too fat, am I too skinny?, where will we do it?" Good. For me there nothing better than watching them shake in their shoes. Look at them trembling...I haven't even touched them yet.
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